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We all experience times of loneliness differently. Some enjoy freedom and flirt with others. Others do not even think about it and live their solitary lives. However, many painfully perceive the absence of a partner. These feelings can be exacerbated at a holiday that glorifies love, union, family — at the wedding of friends.
Havîn demsala şemitîna tavê ye, şahiyên behrê, kokteylên bipije û dawetan e. Merasîmên bedew, xwaringeh bi xwarinên xweş û dans heta ku hûn davêjin. Em dibin şahidên van kêliyên herî bextewar û herî bibîranîn di jiyana nûzewican de û dikarin bi rastî kêfa wan bikin. Bi şertekî: ger em ne bi tenê bin.
Wekî din, helbet em dikarin ji bûk û zava re dilşa bibin, lê ne mimkûn e ku kêfa xwe ji tiştên ku diqewime, werbigirin. Li her derê ku hûn lê dinêrin cotên bextewar hene. Her tişt di derbarê vê betlaneyê de rewşa meya xemgîn tîne bîra me, û wusa dixuye ku em bi tenê ne ku ji gelek kîlometreyan re hevalbendek me tune…
Çi dikare ji we re bibe alîkar ku hûn ji depresyonê dûr bikevin? Êvarek li barek di lêgerîna serpêhatiyê de? Vegere Tinder? Lê heke hûn têkiliyek naxwazin, lê di heman demê de hûn ji hêla hestek tenêtiyê ve têne bindest kirin? Li vir sê teknîkên saxbûnê yên ji bo single di demsala zewacê de hene.
1. Ji xwe re dubare bikin: "Baş e ku meriv tenê bimîne."
You don’t have to be with anyone. If you don’t have that need, but you think you «should» find someone, chances are good that you’ll be in the company of someone who doesn’t care about you, stuck in a relationship that won’t bring warmth.
Being alone has its advantages. You don’t have to consider the other person’s wishes all the time. You are free to follow your dreams and make them come true. This applies to the choice of food, and trips to festivals — yes, anything!
2. Pêngava yekem bavêjin
Dibe ku daweta hevalan dê rêça ramanên we biguhezîne, û hûn ê biryar bidin ku hûn ji tenêtiyê westiyayî ne û têkiliyek dixwazin. Baş e, mezin! Dibe ku li tenişta we jixwe kesek hebe ku we sempatîk dike. Wext e ku meriv cesaret bike û ji wî an wê bipirse.
If such a person is not around, try new dating formats: sites, “speed dating”. Try to be more open, communicate more with others — in person and on the Internet. You never know where love might be.
3. Bala xwe biguherînin û hobiya xweya bijare bikin
If you have a lot of free time, you can throw yourself into your favorite thing — for example, return to a hobby. Haven’t learned how to play difficult chords on the guitar? Always dreamed of trying diving? Find something that you like that will make you forget about loneliness forever or at least until the next wedding of friends.