One should not look at external signs, as a wife can be socially active simply by obeying the will of her husband (this is his form of dominance over a woman). Question: who represents in society, and who keeps the family hearth? Distinguish from forced inversion, in which partners are uncomfortable!
The pros are the same as in a regular traditional marriage.
Dengûbas:
A woman can earn much more than a man, and much less (society allows her), but at the same time, the initiation of changes, the decision-making process, contacts with society and other activities belong to her. Even if a man earns, the prioritization of where the money goes belongs to the woman. And a man is comfortable from this … it would be, but
Neyînî:
Public opinion, friends, parents — everyone around is ready to call a man in a passive position «henpecked». Yes, and the partners themselves are steamed by the fact that their natural way of life is not socially approved. The man starts to drive (it is necessary to prove who is in charge), the woman starts to cut him (you are not a man); a man tries to conform (workaholism) or runs away (into alcohol, into a childish position), a woman goes in search of a “real man” or tries to educate (partnerships end, parent-child relationships begin).
Exit: mutual acceptance by partners of their way of life, awareness and use of its advantages. Learn to interact from an Adult-Adult position and send “well-wishers”, protect a partner and marriage from social interference.