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new year wish
Why do wishes come true? Or rather, why do some wishes come true, others do not? And where is the magic spell that contributes to the «dream come true»?
From early childhood, I asked myself these questions, like any romantic girl who believes in miracles. However, the first answer, or rather even the ANSWER (with a capital letter), I remembered for the rest of my life. Since then, the answers began to appear and add up in a logical chain. But that incident simply shocked me, “knocked me down” with its power… Because it absolutely contradicted the theory of probability… And partly even materialism…
I was 13 years old, my whole life was filled with the songs of my favorite band. Such a typical teenage fan, in a good way. And then I find out that a combined concert is taking place at the Olimpiysky, in which my favorite group will perform. Tonight. I decided: I won’t be if I don’t hit! Or rather, I didn’t even think so: I just KNEW that I would definitely get there! Because here it is — a chance to see my idols live, here is a dream — at arm’s length! Of course, it was impossible to get tickets, the total shortage of the eighties, but this did not stop me: I would shoot a ticket, just to get in — and, breaking the piggy bank, collecting all the 50-kopeck coins, I went to the concert …
When I got off the subway, my resolve was severely tested: along the road to the palace there were crowds of people begging for an extra ticket. Imagination immediately began to calculate the probability … but … but the desire was so great that the calculations were pushed into the far corner of consciousness. I stubbornly decided to go to the very place of the concert. And here I am standing in a large crowd, freezing in a jacket that is too light for such weather … there are fifteen minutes left before the concert … Happy ticket holders pass by … and I’m not even standing at the main entrance … I have only fifteen minutes … then I’ll probably burst into tears or I will beg the ticket-grandmothers… but for the time being I move my frozen lips: “Do you have an extra ticket?”… Suddenly a voice behind me: “Do you need a ticket?”. With hope I turn around, I see a man running past who said this. «Come with me,» he says without stopping. We are almost running, running past the ticket-grandmothers, who do not ask him or me about anything …. We go up to the tier under the very roof, he puts me on a simple bench — and leaves! Without demanding money, without trying to get to know each other… just like that… he’s just here for a sound engineer or lighting engineer… So — there is happiness! I’m at the concert — that’s a plus. But you can’t see anything, it’s very high — and this is a minus. The tier is filled with soldiers, and suddenly one of them offers me: “Do you want to see it big?” — and holds out real field glasses. It becomes clear at a glance, tears of happiness are pouring down the cheeks of a teenage fan …
So, contrary to the theory of probability and everyday logic that you have to pay for everything, I plunged into my dream.
If I had thought in advance about the impossibility of this happiness, I would not even try, because it was obvious to anyone who saw crowds of people thirsting for a ticket… But — it happened… And at that moment I thought that there must be secrets, thanks to knowledge which any wish can come true.
A few years later, when I, already a student, took part in a training (something like “Positive Thinking”), wise trainers told me these secrets. But there was so much esotericism, and by that time I was such a materialist … Although I no longer believed in Santa Claus, but I still wanted fulfillment of desires, I was skeptical, I did not believe in the effectiveness of the “magic words” they offered. Then the coach offered to make a “test” wish. And I decided on an experiment: at the institute where I studied, they introduced a single attestation exam — each ticket contains 20 questions on all subjects passed. I myself had already chosen a different direction for myself and was about to leave the walls of the alma mater, so I didn’t really lose anything. Here’s a reason to try! While my classmates were going crazy, boiling over notes and books, trying to embrace the immense, I just made a wish to pass the exam. And here he is. I take a ticket — and find out that of all the questions I know the answers to only 2. Well, where are the vaunted results of using technology ?! And suddenly … Fate showed me who was the boss in the house: a girl sat in front of me, whom my classmates did not like, but with whom I was on good terms. Reacting to my frustrated look, she asked me what my ticket number was and handed me a fully refunded ticket. It turned out that the girl worked part-time at the dean’s office, she printed these tickets herself and worked through them all. I felt bad — I was covered by a divine cloud of the collective mind. Here it is, my wish, in my hand… At that moment, I realized, if not that the thought is life-giving, then at least that «something is» — there is a way to attract events. From that moment on, I began not only to use this technology, but also to study it through the prism of all the knowledge of psychology.
The Art of Systematic Thinking
Fulfillment of desires is the art of systematic thinking. In order for the desire to come true, it is necessary to determine the system of your values and the system of your needs. The fact is that we often tend to deceive not only other people and pretend not to be what we really are, but also to deceive ourselves. Remember «Stalker»… How often do we hear the groans of our friends: «I can’t afford to rest, I work so hard, there is absolutely no time for rest, and I would like to go to rest.» Stop. Do these people really have a desire to relax? They have a passionate dream of being needed, irreplaceable — and therefore this desire comes true. We all know perfectly well that people who angrily ask: “Why should I do everything for you?” — as a rule, this is exactly what they want, and by their behavior they provoke others to irresponsible behavior. When a person has several desires, the stronger one comes true. If you want to be irreplaceable, there will be no rest. If, however, you passionately wished for rest, its opportunity will come, and, perhaps, from where you do not expect …
And here is another tip: do not limit the ways in which the result you are waiting for can come to you. Imagine that you have a dream — to go to Thailand. What needs to be done to make this dream come true? Not just wanting, but wanting it right. The first rule is that we must not drive ourselves into a narrow corridor with the restrictions that we impose on our desires. «I will work hard — and earn money for a trip to Thailand.» This is a misguided wish. Of course, if the goal is to earn money, and not to go to Thailand, then everything is correct … But think, is there really only one way to «dream come true»? It is possible that you could go there on a business trip. There may be a person who will give you this trip. You will win the required amount in the lottery — or a trip by sending some 5 tags from coffee, cigarettes or bouillon cubes … One of my acquaintances so passionately dreamed of visiting America for free that some sectarians found him on the street and offered him two weeks to travel at their expense to the United States for a program teaching their religion. He gladly agreed (although he did not even imagine such an option for making his dream come true).
By setting a limit (“I will only go with the money I earn”), you prohibit other opportunities. Opportunity goes where there is open access. If you insist on a way to fulfill a wish, it makes the task more difficult for the forces that fulfill desires. In this regard, the example of a friend of mine is very instructive. She really wanted to be well provided for — and for some reason associated the fulfillment of this desire only with work. But suddenly her husband became very rich, became a typical “new Russian” and demanded from her, as all “new Russian wives” should, stop working. Of course, it wasn’t what she meant, but what she asked for. We will talk about the correct wording of desires later.
In the meantime, let’s begin to understand the technology of making wishes. Yes, this difficult art has its own algorithm.
Step One — Analysis
It is especially effective to make wishes for the New Year, Birthday — when you experience a special emotional upsurge, when, as in childhood, you have no doubt that miracles are possible … But, of course, we have wishes much more often, so this technology is suitable for any day of life.
The first action is to prepare yourself emotionally for the fulfillment of the desire. To do this, you need to analyze what good things have happened to you lately. Remember the cases when, really, you only had to think: «It would be nice …» — and this happened pretty soon. Thus, we adjust our perception to be good and real. It can be important to remember how you used to receive small gifts from fate and gain a foothold in the belief that this is not only possible, that this is normal and correct. I was late, but managed to jump into the car …. I thought about the right person — and he appeared … I remembered the birthday of a friend in time — and received an offer from him for an interesting job …
It is very important to try to see life positively. Folk wisdom says: «What you were afraid of — that’s what happened.» People who are afraid of something most of all send these messages to the Universe — and as a result they receive an adequate “answer” to these “letters”. The more positive our attitude towards life is, the greater the chances of fulfillment of desires.
Step two — wording
«The Lord punishes us by the fulfillment of our desires»
(Eastern wisdom)
After that, on an emotional upsurge, you need to formulate your new desire. There are some very important rules here:
- It is important that the wording of the desire sounds positive! You can’t — «I don’t want this to happen.» Say what you want. Not “I don’t want my child to get sick”, but “I want my child to be healthy”.
- It is advisable to try to formulate it in such a way that in the formulation the fulfillment of a desire does not depend on other people, but on you. Not «I want the prince to come», but «I want to make the prince fall in love with me.» However, even if the wording is “to be such a charmer that he falls in love with me” — it’s also not bad, because in this way we program ourselves for the charm of this very prince — and something will work out …
- It is necessary to formulate a desire according to your real life values. My friend, who, as a source of wealth, got the role of a new Russian wife, if she wanted to earn wealth herself, and the desire had to be formulated differently. For example, “I want to work for big money, be in demand and enjoy it.”
- You need to formulate a desire either very, very narrowly, carefully prescribing each “condition”, or very broadly. Imagine that your desire accepts some kind of worldwide computer. Remember how a computer search is set up? Either a very precise wording is needed, or the request should be as broad as possible.
Suppose a girl formulates: «I want the prince to come.» And if the prince comes to her office on business — and leaves? She adds to the previous formula: «… and fell in love.» Perhaps the wish will come true, but there is nothing more terrible than an unrequited love prince. Well, he adds: «… and I would like to fall in love with him.» But then he realizes that there is nothing more terrible than a beloved and beloved prince who is not free …. And so on with variations. These conditions should not be discussed too much at a time, better — no more than 5 … Here is a funny case: two girls “asked” for a husband. They wrote, as expected, no more than 5 characteristics of the expected lover … And the beloved came — such as requested, and smart, and beautiful, and rich … One is from Nigeria, and the other is from the United Arab Emirates. Everything was fine, only in their requests the girls did not indicate that they would like princes of “Russian production”.
In some cases it can be useful to give a «broad request». For example, do not think about the prince or about the neighbor Vasya, but simply ask «that my personal life be arranged in the best way.» However, we must again recall the rule that we have already mentioned: when desires contradict each other, a stronger one comes true. If a girl wants both a family and a career, it is possible that the “best thing” for her would be not to have problems with her family in order to make her career more successful …
Here is the time to talk about consistency again: when making a wish, it is necessary to take into account the possible consequences, so to speak, to observe the “ecological friendliness” of desires. While conducting joyful experiments on making wishes, I quickly became convinced that this is also a huge responsibility. At some point, I suddenly thought: “What am I not ordering money for?”. And I decided to «order» the amount, which at that time seemed astronomical — 5 thousand dollars a month. A week later, a friend in black glasses and with 2 guards came to my training. During the break, he called me back and said: “You suit us. We offer you a job for 5 thousand dollars a month for 2 years. You will live on our territory, advise us on negotiations, and then as you wish, but the information you receive will not have the right to disclose. I got sick. Yes, that was what I asked for. But only for this money I would like to have fun, and not a bullet in the forehead in 2 years. I’m still glad that I managed to wriggle out of such an acquaintance then. And I added the word “so that I like it!” … True, the implementation of this desire with the new amendment took not two weeks, but five years.
Here is another very important circumstance: there is the concept of the mission of each person. And if a person follows what he was “sent” to this world for, he receives gifts. If inexplicable streaks of failure suddenly began in your life, it’s time to see if you turned off the path at some point. A very vivid example of such a «turn» was demonstrated by my friend: he was engaged in the removal of alcoholics from drinking binges, when the idea suddenly occurred to him to go into a serious business. He organized a firm, but after some time he began to get sick, the family went into trouble, and the arrest was the culmination. He spent 2 years in prison — and, thanks to the work of a lawyer, he was released. Contrary to expectations, he came out happy: in prison he had the opportunity to think about everything, read books, he treated people, that is, he did what he was very good at. And after the exit, he began to treat again — he himself explains this by the fact that «he was returned to what he was supposed to do.»
Step three — «ticket to the cinema»
After the desire has acquired the ideality of a mathematical formula, one must imagine this desire, immerse oneself, plunge into it. To see with the inner eye such a “movie” in which this desire has already come true. Maybe a wedding with a prince or a family vacation with your common children … The boss’s office with a heavy paperweight and a beautiful secretary bringing coffee to you, the boss … View of Paris from the Eiffel Tower … Your photo on a brand new student ID card … Press conference about the release of your new book … This «movie» should really please you, and its reality will make the desire almost «tangible» and help it come true. The most important thing! You must be the main character of this movie! Because otherwise, you can meet the office you saw, but it will have nothing to do with you … In such a “movie” there must be confirmation that this is yours !!!
Step Four — «Because I deserve it»
We need to find some formula, “open sesame,” that will constantly tune us in a positive way — such a supportive belief. It can be anything according to your taste. For example,
- I am the beloved child of the universe
- all the forces of nature exist to fulfill my desires
- if God created me, then he created everything for me that I need
- no desire arises in a person without the means to fulfill it
- I deserve a good life — and I always get what I’m supposed to
- The universe is a friendly environment full of resources
This formula must be accepted with all your heart, pronounce it to yourself, convince yourself.
At the same time, if you are religious, then this is a prayer to your god. If you do not associate what is happening with higher forces, then the statement must be completely materialistic. For example: «I am able to notice good things happening to me.» Our life beliefs are like a flower bed: it has both good flowers and weeds. Harmful beliefs (“you are worth nothing”, “you do not deserve a better life”) must be ruthlessly weeded out, and good ones should be cherished, watered … For training, going to bed, try to visualize the chosen formula: for example, imagine yourself as the beloved child of the Universe. Here you can not be shy: no one will see your movie, you can imagine anything you like — from the gentle look of God to the welcoming waves of the tentacles of green men or just a stream of light. It is important that this «love of the universe» gives you confidence.
Step Five — Times, Dates and Signs
Be sure, when making a guess, discuss the timing of the fulfillment of the desire. After all, how often does it happen that a wish made a long time ago still comes true — but it is no longer needed. Accordingly, when making a guess, you need to set a period during which you are waiting for the fulfillment of a desire. There is only one limitation here: do not guess performances after 15 minutes if you do not believe that this is possible.
Watch out for the signs that accompany you through life. If you think about a difficult matter on the way home, formulate a desire mentally and, looking up at that moment, see a large inscription on the wall of the house: “Why?” — Answer yourself this question, it is most likely not accidental.
You leave the house, insanely late, and the car breaks down, ground transport runs badly, but, overcoming all the obstacles, you arrive at an important meeting — and the meeting was canceled. Familiar story? But it was possible to predict it — it was only necessary to follow the signs. A person who listens to himself and to the signs will next time do what should have been done at the very first moment: call and find out if the meeting has been cancelled.
The films «Blinded by Wishes» and «Route 60» can be a great instruction on how to make wishes and what happens if the technology is not followed.
«If he leaves, it’s forever»
A desire must not only be able to make a wish — it must be able to use it. There is a parable on this subject. A certain person went to heaven and, because he was used to working, asked for something to do. He was instructed to disassemble the file cabinet from the creation of the world. At first, he thoughtlessly sorted it out, then read one of the cards… There, next to the surname and name of the inhabitant of paradise, it was indicated what blessings were due to him in earthly life. The man found his card and read that he was supposed to have an excellent job in his life, a three-story house, a beautiful wife, two talented children, three cars … And he felt that he had been deceived. He runs with a complaint to the heavenly authorities, and they answer him: “Let’s figure it out. When you finished the 8th grade, we prepared a place for you in an elite school, but you went to a vocational school around the corner. Then we saved up a beautiful wife for you, you were supposed to meet her in the south, but you decided to save money, and asked for “at least Luska from the next entrance” as your wife. We couldn’t refuse you… You had the opportunity to have a house when your aunt asked you to come — you refused, and she wanted to leave you an inheritance… Well, it turned out quite funny with the car: they even slipped you lottery tickets, but you chose Zaporozhets «…
There are many people who make wishes, but are still not ready for their fulfillment, and either devalue these wishes, or, when they come true, begin to doubt, even resist. If you have made a meeting with the person you need, then be prepared to meet him, and when you meet, do not run past, because the next time may not be, let the wish come true. Know that «love at first sight» exists — love with a person, an organization, a thing. Do not resist the one who comes into your hands, because then it will be more difficult to fulfill your desire.
Those who have understood or felt that the fulfillment of desires “on our order” is possible or still doubt, but are ready to try, may not read further. Romantics better believe it’s just a magic spell! This is a miracle recipe! Try it and see!
If it seems to you that there is too much magic in our algorithm — well, here’s an exposure of magic. We all know that a person who drives a car crosses the road differently than a simple pedestrian: he is able to predict the behavior of drivers and traffic flows. The focus of attention of our consciousness is what the focus is, pardon the pun. A person with his thoughts, words, behavior programs his brain for something. If we want to buy shoes, we will meet shoe stores all over the city. As soon as we buy shoes and move on to something else, we will meet the opportunity to purchase this other thing. Our subconscious chooses exactly the information that is of value and interest to us now. Our task is to create conditions to help the consciousness catch the necessary information. Any manager knows that in business it is necessary to set specific goals for yourself. Why? If there is no goal, it is difficult to allocate resources and it is not clear when the result is achieved and how the result is measured. If we don’t set goals for ourselves, we won’t be able to achieve anything. Why are we more attentive to business than to our own lives? If in life we learn to set goals (and what are our desires if not the formulation of a certain goal?), then we will better understand both our resources and ways to achieve them, we will better see strengths and weaknesses, we will concentrate and look for ways to achieve goals .
Whether we explain the fulfillment of desires by our painstaking systematizing work or by the intervention of some higher powers, it does not matter: desires can come true!
And advice for the future: if you make a wish, make sure it comes true. In order to clearly sum up these results, it makes sense to record the desire in writing and hide the leaflet … A person is a greedy creature: they guessed “the arrival of the prince”, and he came to you on business and is generally married. Do not blame later on fate that the wish did not come true — it is better to check what you have guessed. Fulfilled wishes will help you a lot to make them in the future — for the first step, “artillery preparation”, such examples of “dreams come true” will be very useful. The more experience of fulfilled desires accumulate, the easier it will be to make them every next time. Let yourself be surprised when your wish comes true!